Gay world works in hyperspeed

Okay, you should also know that when it comes to internet dating, the gay world tends to move at hyperspeed compared to the str8 world. 

That means it really doesn't take much before people are willing to "meet up". 

Generally, though, the "meet up" tends not to be so much romantic as it is animalistic, if you catch my drift. 

That said, the challenge for the gays is to actually keep it in the pants long enough to allow for a real relationship to blossom. 

Ergo, success if often measured by chastity whereas for the str8's success is measured by the absence of chastity. (This makes me happy because being able to appropriately label things "Paradigm shifts" gives me philosophy student goosebumps).